Though Emily Post still offers certain guidelines for when and where to doff your hat — men should take off their hats in a private home, at mealtimes, during the national anthem, in public buildings and so on; women should do the same with baseball caps, but may leave “fashion hats” on unless they block someone’s view — fashion these days is so fluid, and so geared toward prioritizing the individual over the group, that most rules have simply gone out the window.
Indeed, Jones pretty much confirmed the above. “Ladies do not have to remove their hats indoors, although it is polite for men to remove their hats,” he said in an email. “For myself, even if I wear an evening hat to a red carpet occasion, I would always remove it at dinner.”
The good news is that means you don’t have to deal with the hat head issue, because it’s not necessary to remove the hat. (Though Jones also notes that the flattening effect you are experiencing could happen because a hat is too tight.)
If it does become a problem, however, Wes Sharpton of Hairstory suggests keeping some dry shampoo, also known as hair powder, to hand. “We often times only think about using a powder as an oil absorber, but there are powders that actually have some grip and can build instant volume, especially if applied at the root,” he emailed. You’ve heard of excusing yourself to powder your nose? This is the hair equivalent.
Just disappear for a moment, sprinkle some into your hands and scrunch. Then — well, chapeau.
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